Married man (35) quietly exploring - Durban

35-year-old married guy, happily with my 28-year-old husband. Lately, I’ve been considering the idea of one day introducing him to the possibility of inviting a third into our bed to add some excitement. He doesn’t know about this yet, so for now I’m quietly exploring what kind of men might be out there.

Because discretion is extremely important, I’d especially like to connect with someone who is straight, married, and curious about exploring with other men. That mutual need for privacy helps ensure everyone feels safe and respected.

I’m looking for someone who is:

Respectful and discreet

Confident but down-to-earth

Adventurous yet trustworthy


At this stage, I’m simply putting the thought out there and seeing who might be interested. Please note: I won’t respond to any messages that are vulgar, crude, or disrespectful.

If this resonates with you, please reply with a respectful introduction and your stats(mandatory)

Thanks, and I look forward to hearing from you.
Note I cannot chat via WhatsApp until some level of trust is established So email is the way , if that's a turn off, please do not respond Thanks-