Looking for a relationship. - Durban

Hi there I’m a 25 year old black guy and as the title suggests that I'm looking for a decent guy who is also looking for someone they would like to potentially date. I'd like to mention that I am not in the closet as that sometimes seems to be an issue with some guys. I However don't have a problem with you being closeted as it is your choice but I do not want to be treated as a secret if you get what I mean. I am openly gay and that's taken a lot to do so I don't necessarily want to be taken back to the times of hiding. So enough about that, I stay in Eastern cape because of work but I’m frequently in Durban. I am looking for someone who is either in their last year of studies or working or someone who is determined to do something with their life (I hope that doesn't offend anyone). Anyways I'd prefer if the guy is not Indian as I have had quite a lot of bad experiences with Indian guys behavior on the internet. I am looking for a guy that is top or verse top and even totally verse because I don’t really think that your sexual position should determine who you date. Also my age limit is 32. What I ask of you is that you be a genuine guy who is honestly looking for a relationship and doesn't have ulterior motives. I'd appreciate it if you'd respond with your details so I can get a sense of who you are before I hand over my number. Not sure if this is the most appropriate place for this but I'm assuming since I'm here someone like me could also be here. Okay thanks for reading this and I hope you're what I'm looking for. Also apologies for such a long text I just wanted to be clear on what I’m hoping for. ❤️