Kwa Mashu - Durban

Hi ladies, I hope you are all well.Im 38 year old dude, black, ngihlala kwaK. I have been in this area since Feb, not working since Jan, but about to start on a new job. I came to KZN to start over my life, after some wasted time in Cape Town living life like there is no tomorrow. It was fun but really ended badly, but at least I survived it all and still managed to continue figuring out life. I'm naturally a person who loves to socialize and meet people. I love having people around to discuss stuff and have fun with, talk shit and laugh together. I have been here since Feb (resided in Ntuzuma for a year before moving to Mashu, came from Jozi October 2023) and quite honestly I haven't really connected with anyone around here, KZN in general. I do have a varsity guy friend who stays out of town and I do see him every now and then, but it's just that, we meet once in a while. I also know people in Ntuzuma and few dudes I have met kwaMashu, but nothing decent to be called friendships. I would love to meet a loving lady who I can hang out with every now and then and see where It goes. Ideally someone who loves to explore and live some adventures like hiking and stufd. I love traveling and I have people and family in EC and Cape Town, so yeah, someone I can visit those places with, if it calls. Anyone in the range 20-35; someone easy going but have some life to live. Someone I can call and we go on a breakfast with , someone I can call and we go to the stadium together , someone I can go to concerts and shows with , someone I can call and ask for the next KZN adventure to explore. Is that too much to ask for? There is someone ive been seeing but still not feeling like we connect to the level I want and like. I smoke (weed fan) and I'm on a break on alcohol but I don't mind going out either. So yeah, can someone send me a WhatsApp on the number and we start chatting?